Soon after arriving in Vrindavan I met a couple of second-generation devotees from US and their austrian friend and made good friends with them. It was nice to meet people who weren’t hard-core, dead-serious fundamentalists about the dharma - people who realise that it’s the inside that matters, all the rules, regulations, etiquette and dress code being just the outside.
My new friends recommended I join them on the Iskcon-organised bus trip for midnight bathing on Radha-kund, as it was a very auspicious time for going there. When I booked the bus tickets I had no idea of what was to come..
We got on the bus at 8 or 9 PM and arrived near Radha-kunda about one hour later. The bus couldn’t take us all the way because the police had blocked the road and didn’t allow any vehicles to pass. We decided not to wait as the Isckon people were negotiating with the cops about getting the buses through and instead we would take a walk to Radha-kunda. On the way we managed to catch an auto-rickshaw and went with it for the rest of the remaining 4 kilometers. On the way my friends told me they’re going to make dandavats-parikrama (circumambulating, moving only by throwing yourself to the ground over and over again) around Radha-kund. At first I thought I’d join them, but I changed my mind as we reached Radha-kund. The surroundings of Radha-kund were all backed with crowds of pilgrims and devotees, all of whom whad come for the very auspicious midnight bath. After doing just one dandavats I felt this isn’t my thing, not in a crowd like that, no matter how auspicious the moment would be for such austerity. I ended up helping out one of my friends as she was doing her parikrama by varrying a water bottle for her and occasionally yelling at, pushing and shoving the crowd to make space for her next dandavats. Only as I was slowly walking accompanying her all around Radha-kund I could really appreciate the amount of austerity my friends were set to do - it took us about two hours to complete the parikrama! The last few hundred meters were the most challenging due to the crowd being thicker and thicker as we were approaching the place where we started.
The most intense part of the night was yet to come - it was getting to be midnight and the crowd of hundreds (or thousands!) all flocked to the Radha-kund (wich is a small pool of water) on all sides and of course we wanted to be in the middle of the action, bathing in the water at midnight. By now our ‘ream’ had been reduced to three as one of the girls in our group didn’t go for the dandavats-parikrama and instead joined some argentinian devotees and we had lost them in the crowd during the parikrama, so it was just me, one american girl and one austrian guy. As we went into the thicked crowd we would notice some of the indian men were acting like animas, having no respect for the holy place of Srimati Radharani or for women - they would shamelessly try to grab our friend, no matter that we’re in a holy place, no matter it’s a rekuguiys festival, no matter she’s accompanied by two guys! We ended up moving as a very tight group of three, never being more than 10cm apart from each others. Rarely on this trip have I felt as close to the people I’ve met as on the Radha-kund - both physically and mentally, behing in the holy dham with a couple of fellow western devotees and surrounded by an ocean of indian pilgrims.
After the midnight bath and pushing and shoving our way out of the crowd (wich wasn’t an easy task either, with more and more people coming in for their auspicious bath) we met up with the missing frind of ours and her argentinian companions and on our way back to the buses we compared our experiences of the evening. Our friends had also been assaulted by the crowd just as badly as she had fought her way to the kund on the other side. She told us of having beaten several guys on the way as hard as she possibly could and she had also recieved help from the more decent members of the crowd. All in all it was a night to remember. We reached back to Vrindavan at around 3 AM, after having a night snack at a dhaba while waiting for the other devotees to assemble back to the bus and after a tired bus trip back. I crashed at my friends’ apartment at Iskcon MVT since my ashram was most likely locked up at such late hours.